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why does every thread about relationships recently end up like this..

 

Like what?

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why does every thread about relationships recently end up like this..

 

Like what?

 

I was thinking the same thing ... like what?

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lol general chit chat about clairexx's relationship problems.

 

i like her cynicalism, but it just drags on and on. anywho, continue.

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lol general chit chat about clairexx's relationship problems.

 

i like her cynicalism, but it just drags on and on. anywho, continue.

 

It's because I am so f*cking great and everyone just wants to talk about me.

 

Seriously though. There is nothing to talk about.

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lol general chit chat about clairexx's relationship problems.

 

i like her cynicalism, but it just drags on and on. anywho, continue.

 

It's because I am so f*cking great and everyone just wants to talk about me.

 

Seriously though. There is nothing to talk about.

 

It's the only interesting thing currently on around here.

 

:lol: :lol:

 

Yes Megan you are so f**king great.

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Being single is important.

 

I was single for 5 years after a bad relationship that ended in 2002.

 

The time was spent growing up, doing what I wanted to do, and getting my life in order.

 

Sure I had f*ck buddies, I still had needs, but committing to someone was something I was unwilling to do.

 

I recommend spending time alone to anyone.

+1

I spent 2 years alone after a messy breakup. I needed the time to blame the world, deliberately hurt people to get back at the world and generally just break stuff.

 

I also spent some time having a good hard think about what i am expecting from a relationship, and start looking purely for that.

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lol general chit chat about clairexx's relationship problems.

 

i like her cynicalism, but it just drags on and on. anywho, continue.

 

It's because I am so f*cking great and demand lots of sex in relationships.

Fixed.

 

:drool:

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just finished a 3 year relationship. Was good but needed to end. Now I live by noone elses rules, not even my own.

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Currently in a relationship,.. only been going for a few months, but all is going very well :)

before that was single for around 2 years after my engagement ended badly,... cheating bitch <_ but thats well gone>

after the single time i feel i've grown a bit, so hopefully all goes well

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Currently in a relationship,.. only been going for a few months, but all is going very well :)

before that was single for around 2 years after my engagement ended badly,... cheating bitch <_ but thats well gone>

after the single time i feel i've grown a bit, so hopefully all goes well

 

Good luck!

 

It can be hard to trust people after you have been cheated on so good on you for getting back into it.

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you are one bitter woo-mang clairxx

 

That wasn't bitter at all. I was saying that it is really nice for him that he is in another relationship because some people find it hard after they have been cheated on.

 

What is bitter about that?

 

PS - I see you lurking Mac Dog. *waves*

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I'd like to put my bit in your bitterest of bitters.

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it is bitter isnt it...

 

taste like sea urchin.

 

anyways your bitter in general clairxx.

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*waves back* :lol:

 

Communication is the key.

 

You're not going to know you're doing anything wrong if you're not told.

 

Or doing good for that matter!

 

COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING... even if it does hurt. If they can't handle the truth, then how can you be truthful?

 

I am single.

 

I don't like new people + I dislike dating.

 

I am also cold hearted + very selective.

 

I don't think I would look available to anyone. The boy I like has a gf.

 

I think I might just go stab my eyes out.

 

I guess you'll just have to wait a while ay B)

 

 

 

I think being single is important to learn more about yourself and the fact that you know you can handle things on your own. Worst thing you can do is feel the need to depend on someone else. Since I was 17 I've only been single 3 months... that's 8 years and 9 months being in relationships. I can dare say that if i'm single again, it will be for a loooooooooooooooong time.

 

I hate women.

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it is bitter isnt it...

 

taste like sea urchin.

 

anyways your bitter in general clairxx.

 

I was being nice to that guy. I think the bitterness is in your imagination.

 

I am really decent and nice in real life.

 

Tell them how nice I am Mac Dog ... please.

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*waves back* :lol:

 

Communication is the key.

 

You're not going to know you're doing anything wrong if you're not told.

 

Or good for that matter!

 

I am single.

 

I don't like new people + I dislike dating.

 

I am also cold hearted + very selective.

 

I don't think I would look available to anyone. The boy I like has a gf.

 

I think I might just go stab my eyes out.

 

I guess you'll just have to wait a while ay B)

 

 

 

I think being single is important to learn more about yourself and the fact that you know you can handle things on your own. Worst thing you can do is feel the need to depend on someone else. Since I was 17 I've only been single 3 months... that's 8 years and 9 months being in relationships. I can dare say that if i'm single again, it will be for a loooooooooooooooong time.

 

I hate women.

 

Indeed. Wait I will.

 

Don't say you hate women. Your gf is fab ... isnt she.

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It really shits me to watch people who NEED to be in a relationship all the time, no sooner are they single, they are hanging off the arm of another person claiming they are together.

These are the same people who go through 10 relationships in one year, and quickly develop a reputation for cheating.

 

It just ditutes the significance of a relationship so badly that it is hardly worth bothering.

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It really shits me to watch people who NEED to be in a relationship all the time, no sooner are they single, they are hanging off the arm of another person claiming they are together.

These are the same people who go through 10 relationships in one year, and quickly develop a reputation for cheating.

 

It just ditutes the significance of a relationship so badly that it is hardly worth bothering.

 

This interests me also. I wonder how they find people so quickly that they can even put up with long enough to be in a relationship.

 

Do they settle for whoever?

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Been single for about 6 months

 

Looks like its going to stay that way too.. stupid boys ^_^

ive told you befor oasis active

 

 

6 week relationship today

no im not counting i just got a msg from her lol

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It really shits me to watch people who NEED to be in a relationship all the time, no sooner are they single, they are hanging off the arm of another person claiming they are together.

These are the same people who go through 10 relationships in one year, and quickly develop a reputation for cheating.

 

It just ditutes the significance of a relationship so badly that it is hardly worth bothering.

 

This interests me also. I wonder how they find people so quickly that they can even put up with long enough to be in a relationship.

 

Do they settle for whoever?

I think the criteria for dating is somewhere along the lines of "attractive? attracted to me? that'll do!".

It just seems some people live their lives with little or no forward planning, and just think they can jump in and out of relationships willy nilly.

 

I always laugh when girls like that say "i don't f'k unless i'm in a relationship, i'm not a hoe". Nevermind the fact that they can often go through 3 relationships in a week.

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I used to say that.

 

Until I realised it was a load of rubbish.

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Tell them how nice I am Mac Dog ... please.

 

yeah, she's a bitch on the net!

 

 

:P

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Been single for about 6 months

 

Looks like its going to stay that way too.. stupid boys ^_^

ive told you befor oasis active

 

 

6 week relationship today

no im not counting i just got a msg from her lol

LOL... No thanks! Im not desperate for a boyfriend anyway.

 

As much as it sucks being lonely, Id rather wait for the right person to come along.

 

I agree with alot of the comments about being single for a period of time makes you learn alot about yourself and what you want in a partner. This is the longest period of time that I have been single since I have been dating so about 6 years, and I have learnt so many valuable lessons, which will hopefully make me a better partner for someone and generally a better and happier person :)

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Tell them how nice I am Mac Dog ... please.

 

yeah, she's a bitch on the net!

 

 

:P

 

Only when provoked lol.

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I used to say that.

 

Until I realised it was a load of rubbish.

I think some of us need a messy breakup to realise that you don't need a relationship to have sex.

When you go years without wanting a partner, but still having to satisfy your needs, there really is no other option :lol:

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I agree with alot of the comments about being single for a period of time makes you learn alot about yourself and what you want in a partner. This is the longest period of time that I have been single since I have been dating so about 6 years, and I have learnt so many valuable lessons, which will hopefully make me a better partner for someone and generally a better and happier person :)

:)

 

Take the time to be selfish and do what you want to do. When I was single I became a gym junkie. I loved it and felt great!

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I used to say that.

 

Until I realised it was a load of rubbish.

I think some of us need a messy breakup to realise that you don't need a relationship to have sex.

When you go years without wanting a partner, but still having to satisfy your needs, there really is no other option :lol:

 

you can have sex by yourself? :huh:

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I used to say that.

 

Until I realised it was a load of rubbish.

I think some of us need a messy breakup to realise that you don't need a relationship to have sex.

When you go years without wanting a partner, but still having to satisfy your needs, there really is no other option :lol:

 

you can have sex by yourself? :huh:

No, that's what casual f'k buddies are for.

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